7 Signs it's Time to Let Go

7-Signs-It's-Time-To-Let-Go

“One of the most courageous decisions you’ll ever make is to finally let go of what is hurting your heart and soul.”
So, how could you know or figure it out that it’s the time to let go?
Don’t you worry, here are 7 signs that show it’s time to let go:

1. Someone continuously overlooks your worth.

We often get confused and forget what our real worth is, but if someone continuously overlooks your worth, it just simply means that you’re not even important to them.

What does it mean?

You should leave and let go, and make them realize what’s your real worth.

If they come back to you, it’s great. If they didn’t, it's greater, because you’ll never gonna be happy with them, if they continuously overlook your worth.

Know your worth!  When you give yourself to someone who doesn’t respect you, you surrender pieces of your soul that you’ll never get back. 

2. Their actions didn’t match their words.

They say something, but their actions are totally different from that. They say, they’ll stand by you forever, but when the time comes, they leave.

It simply means they are just wasting your precious time. You should let them go. Living alone is better than living in a bad company.

You should not listen to what they are saying, but instead, watch what they do. Time will reveal true friends. All you have to do is just keep your eyes open and look at their actions.

“It’s easy to say, but it’s hard to prove.”

3. Most of the times you’ve to sacrifice your happiness.

It’s good that you care about others and it’s great that you make them happy. But the question is on what conditions you’re making them happy? Are you sacrificing your own happiness? Are they worth it? Is your happiness not matters at all?

See if they love you, if they really do care about you, they’ll never want you to sacrifice your happiness. Believe me, your happiness is as well as important as others.

You’re not from Mars. You are too a human with feelings. You too have rights to be happy.

So, make it sure that you should think about your happiness too. If someone constantly/frequently forced you to sacrifice your happiness, then, believe me, it’s time to let go. It’s time to think about your own happiness and let them go.

4. They expect you to be someone you’re not.

You are you, that's what differentiates you from others. You have your own personality, your own style, and that’s great. You didn’t need to copy others.

If they expect you to be someone you’re not, then, believe me, you’ll never gonna be happy with them. If they can’t expect you for what you’re, then it’s time to let them go. Don’t change who you are for anyone else.  It’s wiser to lose someone over being who you are than to keep them by being someone you’re not.

5. They continuously break your trust.

It’s our nature that if someone breaks our trust we always give them a second chance. After all, this is what called “love” right?

I didn’t think so. Love means to give someone chance to hurt you, but trust them not to. If they break your trust maybe they didn’t love you that much. Maybe you should give them a second chance, but what when they continuously break your heart?

Don’t be blind, and foolish, to forgive them every time. They might get used to it, and they’ll break your trust, and heart as well, continuously. So, instead of giving them, another chance every time, take it as a sign and let them go.

It’s time to move on. It’s time to let go. It’s not always about holding on, sometimes the relief and the happiness is in letting go.

6. They’re making you weak.

If you’re in a relationship, then they’re supposed to make you strong. If they make you weak, then it’s time to let go.

Whatever makes you weak or hold you back, let it go. You should always look forward and work for future. Whatever that makes you weak or distracts you from your way, you should cut them off from your life. Whether it’s a habit or a person. You should let go.

7. You are never given a chance to speak your mind.

You’ve so much in your mind, in your heart, but you are never given a chance to speak out that loud. You are never given a chance to express your feelings. They’re just busy in telling their stories, their feelings and when it comes to you, they didn’t even listen.

Believe me, this is the sign you should let them go. You too have feelings, you too have words to say. Speak out your words loudly, if they can’t even listen to you, then they are not worth for your attention.

You should let them go.


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