“You don’t need a new day to start over. You only need a new mindset” -Hazel Hira Ozbek
“It all begins and ends in your mind. What you hive power to, has power over you, if you allow it.”
Mindset is everything. You may have heard about it, you may have read this, you may have listened to people talking about this. But I have a question for you. Do you really believe in it? And if so, then did you really act according to it?
I know what will be your answer.
The only thing that makes and ruins our life is, “mindset.”
This is the only thing which differentiates Bill Gates from a common man. This is the only thing which stops you from being successful and happy in life.
In this article, I will talk about those 5 key secrets or attitudes which successful and happy people have and how you can wire these attitudes in your brain.
When was the last time you wear something, or do something you like, without just thinking about what will others say about you?
If I am not wrong, then maybe you didn’t even remember.
We are living in a society where others opinions mean more than our own.
And it’s very sad to know that you too have trapped in this mindset.
If you keep thinking about what will others say, what are they doing and so on, then you’ll never gonna be happy in this cruel world!
Just answer me one question.
Is it their life or yours?
I didn’t even know why people care about other opinions. I mean they didn’t gonna do anything for you in the future. They are living their lives and if you too live your life on their opinions, then what’s the purpose of living?
What’s to do instead?
-Ignore every single person who says bad about you or your work.
-Focus on your own goals.
-Let haters hate, you just have to ignore them and prove them wrong.
You should also read: How you can Ignore Everybody and Follow Your Dreams
2. Self-Esteem and Self-Confidence.
Another thing or attitude in which you’re losing this game is self-esteem, self-love, and self-confidence. How often did you have heard that a person who has zero confidence in him, makes a billion-dollar company?
Let me guess.
So, how can you imagine yourself to be on the top even you didn’t have any self-esteem or self-confidence?
(You should read: How to be more Confident: 5 Simple Hacks which will make you more confident )
Do you know what are the most powerful words in the English dictionary?
These are “I AM”
How you form these words will form your life.
Instead of thinking, I will be successful, say, “I AM SUCCESSFUL.”
Instead of just thinking or wishing about it, say it louder and work for it.
You should also read: 51 Inspirational Quotes About Self-Esteem and Self-Love (With Pictures)
3. Fear of Failure.
If you too have fear of failure, then sad to say but, you’ll never gonna achieve those heights.
If you too want to work from your comfort zone and feel unsafe to work out of it, then you’ll never gonna be that much successful.
Maybe, you’ll gonna make some good amount of money, but believe me you never gonna be the next billionaire or millionaire.
Always keep in mind, “Comfort zone is a beautiful place, but nothing ever grows there.”
Don’t be afraid of failures. In fact, mistakes are the proof that you’re trying. You didn’t gonna succeed in the very first shot, but if you keep trying, then you’ll achieve things you never even imagined. (This is how hard work surprises us.)
“Today is hard, tomorrow will be worse. But the day after tomorrow will be sunshine.” -Jack Ma
So, what to do instead?
-You should have to get out from your comfort zone and have to work outside of it.
-Face your fear. Believe me, everything will gonna be alright.
-Keep working and keep trying one more time, every time.
-Change your mindset and focus more on positive thoughts.
4. Dream big.
“If you think your dreams are big, then you have to dream bigger.”
Nothing and no dream is bigger if you have belief and consistency towards your work. If Bill Gates thought becoming the richest person on this Earth is a big dream, then he would have never achieved it.
If you’re thinking that your dreams are big to achieve, then believe me you really can’t achieve them. It’s not about the dream, its all about your mindset.
“Mindset is everything. What we do and what we gonna achieve all depends upon our mindset.”
What to do instead?
-Think big, dream big and hustle even harder.
-Change your mindset.
-Stop listening to people who say your dreams are too big to achieve.
5. Always a learner.
I can’t just end up this list without mentioning this major point.
Successful people are always a learner. They are willing to learn something new, each and every single day.
Bill Gates reads about 50 books per year, which breakdowns to 1 book per week.
Mark Cuban spends 3 hours a day in reading.
Mark Zuckerberg reads a book in every two weeks.
Oprah Winfrey reads a book in every month.
Still feeling that you know everything and didn’t have to study anymore?
-Implement a habit of learning and reading in your daily schedule.
-Try to learn at least one new thing in every single day.
-Instead of just reading your school books, read something different. Which you are passionate about.
-Never stop learning.
Form these habits and attitude in your daily life, and let me know how these changes your life, in the comment section below.
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