So, 2018 is finally over and here comes
Well, let me be real honest with you. From over the year every time in the beginning of a new year I set new resolutions for the year but ended up being failed to achieve them.
So, if you’re like me, then you know the pain and real struggle what behind it.
But this year will be going to be different.
I will achieve my goals in this year working with consistency and hard work.
No, I’m not joking. I will surely gonna achieve my goals and gonna fulfill my resolutions.
So, in this post, I will talk about how I am going to achieve my goals and resolutions, and how you can do the same.
First let’s talk about those things which I have learned from the 2018.
Lessons of 2018:
1. Time Management
In last year, I decided to write two articles for my blog in every single week. But I ended up writing 2 to 4 articles per month.
One thing that I have
In 2018 I spent so much of my time at reading books and other blogs and promoting my blog content, instead of writing new content.
Well, that tactics work fine when it comes to overall growth of my blog, but I ended up giving less value to you all, that’s what made me sad.
So, in 2019, I will spend more time writing articles/making content for you all and will try to give as much value as I can give you. In this year, I will try to write 2 articles per week. Let’s me know in the comment section what you think about it.
2. Prioritize Things Wisely.
In 2018, I spend most of time and even money on things that don’t even benefit me. And that’s what I think is one of the big mistake I made in 2018. I didn’t priorities things and that cost me my time and money too.
So, 2019 will going to be different. In 2019, I will priorities things and will going to spend my time wisely.
I will spend most of times on valuable things and will spend less time on useless things. I think you should too adopt this approach.
If you don’t know where to start and how you can prioritize things in your life, then read this article: How to Stay Focus on Your Aim It will help you to do so.
3. Spend Less Time on Social Media.
2018 was the year which I spend most in Instagram. Didn’t wanna lie to you, I do care about the number of followers I have and I tried really hard to gain more followers.
And there’s one thing I learn.
“Followers will come if you provide value to them.”Manish Kumar
I spend several hours trying to do several things which can get me followers, instead of creating quality content.
So, this year will be going to be different.
I will spend less time on social media (in gaining followers) and will spend most my time providing really great content to you all guys.
So, if you’re excited to see my content, then do follow me on Instagram at @nightowl.quotes
4. It’s Good to Be Alone.
One most important thing that I learn is that it’s good to be alone. Well, 2018 was the year where I was too busy in my work, that I get alone. I mean I literally get alone and out of the group.
Where everyone was partying at that time, I was here writing for you all guys. No disrespect and no offence, I really love to write for you guys and will keep writing.
But one thing that I have learned is, it’s good to be alone. I have spent some quality time alone (in peace).
I realize that if I really want to succeed, I should have to work really hard, hard than anybody else. And that’s what I do. And I am proud of me that I didn’t give up on blogging and keep writing.
So, the bottom line is:
“If you’re too alone, fighting for your dreams. Keep fighting alone. It will be worth it in the end.”Manish Kumar
So, these are some things which I have learned in 2018.
Here’s an article that you should read: How to Be Happy When You Are All Alone
Now, let’s talk about how you can keep your new resolutions and how you can stick to that.
How to keep up with your new year’s resolution:
Keeping up with new year’s resolution is a thing most of us can’t do. But this year will going to be different. 2019 will be the year where we will achieve our dreams and will keep up with our resolutions.
Repeat with me, ‘this year I will achieve my dreams and will keep up with my resolutions.’
Now this being said, let’s talk about how you can actually keep up with your resolution:
1. Keep it simple.
Sometimes people set their new year resolution as something which is nearly possible in small term. I mean to be a millionaire. It doesn’t mean that you can’t be a millionaire, but it’s not something that you became overnight, and you have to understand it.
Keep your resolution as simple as it can be, and then it will become easy too to achieve.
2. Be realistic.
There’s nothing wrong in aiming big or setting your resolution big. But the thing is you should need to be realistic. Otherwise it will be an easy way to disappointment and anger, when you fail to achieve that.
So, one simple tip is, be realistic with your resolution. Set clear short-term goals and after achieving them move on to next.
That’s the right way.
3. Make notes.
If you’re like me, then you’ll sure have a problem in memorizing things. I mean one time I know what I should have to do after it, and in the next moment I forgot that.
Maybe because I have ADHD or I don’t know.
But if you’re like me, then you should make notes for your work. This is something I am doing and believe me it has helped me a lot.
I make notes for every single important work, so there’s no point then to forget that.
Like I have made note for writing this post for 1st January too.
So, start making notes now, and let me know how it change your daily life.
4. Treat yourself.
One thing that I have found is that whenever someone win at something they usually want to win more and more. It’s like an addiction.
So, treat your goals like your addiction. I mean whenever you complete a goal, treat yourself for it. In this way, you’ll stay motivated and will keep doing more and more with consistency.
5. Try not to give up.
Well, let me tell you one thing that I believe in. I don’t believe in never give up. I mean if you’re waiting for your Hogwarts letter to come, then I think you’ll have to wait your whole life.
The point is you should think about your plan and work, that whether you’re doing it correctly or not. If you keep doing in wrong way then you’ll never gonna succeed.
So, try not to give up on your new year’s resolution, but if you’re doing it wrongly. Then you should better give a check on it and try again.
That’s it. Hope these tips will going to help you.
Happy New Year 2019.