How to Declutter Your Mind

“A mind which is filled with thousands of unnecessary thoughts is an enemy itself.”

We live an era where overthinking is one of the most common problems in every other person. Didn’t want to brag but I too used to be a victim of this poison. I used to overthink about every other thing, and believe me, this thing literally has killed me from inside.

Well, so you might be wondering how the heck I get rid of this poison and being able to declutter my mind. Didn’t want to brag about myself, but the day after I stopped overthinking and have decluttered my mind from all those unnecessary thoughts, I started living a positive happy life.

Now, I didn’t overthink about unnecessary things and just do whatever the heck I want to. Well, this isn't just helping me to live a happy life but it is also helping me in my career area too.

So, do you too want to live a positive happy life and want to declutter your mind from all those unnecessary thoughts? Do you too want to be a Jedi and want to control your mind?

Well, read this post, and you’ll able to do so. In this post, I will tell you those 5 things which I do personally to declutter my mind. So, let’s get started:

1. Living life as it is your last day.


Whenever you’re overthinking or you can say over-worrying about some stupid small thing, just think once, would you really care about it if it was your last day of life!

Well, this simple saying can affect your mentality a lot. It will help you to stop overthinking about small stupid things.

Don’t believe me?

Try it on your own, then you’ll gonna realize it.

2. Distance yourself from toxic people.


You’ll not go to live a happy life you’re mentally connected with toxic or you can say, negative people. If you really want to live a positive happy life, then you should have to stay away from them.

If you can’t stay away from them physically, then try to stay away from them mentally. When you do so, you’ll see yourself that how your life change.

“Toxic people are one of the major reason for a negative life.”

You should also read this post: How to Distance Yourself From Negative People and Thoughts

3. Get clear on your priorities.


You need to be clear about your priorities. In order to set your priorities, write things down which you think are important to you and will benefit you. Make a list and prioritize things according to your needs.

Now, evaluate things which stand between you and your priorities, and think once, is it worth compromising on what matter most?

This simple trick will help you to declutter your mind and will make you more focused towards your work

4. Let go.


If you have read my previous post on letting go, then you’ll know how letting goes helps us. Not only in becoming happy and living a happy life, but also in decluttering our mind and to stay focused.

Letting go doesn’t mean that you just gave up on every single thing and people. But, after a certain period, there comes a time when you need to let go. You need to understand it.

Here is an article I have written before which will help you to understand it and will also help you in letting go: 7 Signs it's Time to Let Go

5. Rethink about your sleep.


Well, sometimes it just enough sleeps that we are not getting which results in depression, confusion, and many more toxic things. So, instead of just worrying too much, rethink about your sleep.

It doesn’t mean that you should change your whole sleeping pattern, but just rethink it. Find out how much sleep you’re lacking and fill it up.

Well, if you’re facing Sleep Paralysis, then you should check out my book: Sleep Paralysis: Fighting with Dreams It will help you to overcome your sleep paralysis.

Conclusion:


If you really want to declutter your mind you need to change some habits in your life. You must have to change your mindset. When you change your mindset you’ll see how your life changes completely.

“It’s not about how good your life is, it’s about how good you make it.”

Stay away from all those toxic things which create problems in your head that don’t even exists in the real world. Get clear about your priorities and let go all unnecessary things. And after all the work, get proper sleep.

These simple change in your habits can bring huge changes your life. Give these a shot and let me know how it works for you in the comment section below.

And do share it if you like it.


How-to-start-a-blog

You want to start a blog. But the thing is you don’t know how to do it. You didn’t even have any specific knowledge about any field like finance, photoshop, etc. You just want to help others with their daily life problems and want to share your thoughts.

Well, if this is you, then don’t you worry. It doesn’t matter if you’re completely clueless about this blogging thing. After reading this guide, you’ll be able to make a beautiful and effective blog on your own.

And you know what’s the best part of having your own blog is? You can even make money from it.

Yes! You read it right. You can even make money from it. Isn’t it sounds interesting that just by helping others and doing what you love you can even get paid?

Well, this is true though. You can make money, but the thing is, it will take a lot of time and efforts to make a really handsome amount of money from a new blog.

But don’t you worry, I will make everything clear to you in this guide.
So, let’s dive into it.

#1 Step: Choose the Niche.

Before getting started and creating a blog, first of all, you have to choose a niche for your blog. Do you know what the heck is a niche?

Well, a niche is basically the subject or topic on which you’ll make your blog. You can create a blog around any niche (in which you’re interested) but in this guide, we will specifically talk about the personal development niche.

Another thing, many newbies take personal development niche as all wrong. They think they can publish some inspiring stuff and that will work like charm. But this is not how it works.

Personal development niche is pretty big in itself. You have to narrow down it to a specific topic, and then have to create content around it.

For example, in personal development niche, there is health and fitness sub-niche, there is quotes sub-niche, there are daily-life problems sub-niche, and so on. I think you’ve got an idea about how big this niche is. So, first thing first, you need to narrow down it and have to create content around that sub-niche.

This will make you an authority in that niche and if in future you would publish your own products or services, people will more likely to buy that. Because they know you are a trusted person in that niche.

So, choose a niche and then narrow down it according to your knowledge and passion is very important.

#2 Step: Choosing a domain name.

After choosing your niche, the next step is to choose a domain name for your blog. Well, let me guess, you don’t know what the heck is domain name right?

Let me clear it. Domain name is basically the name of your blog/brand by which people will going to remember you and can reach up to you. Just like, www.shutdemall.com is my domain name and I have registered it.

In simple words, the address of your blog, by which people can reach up to you is your domain name.

You should choose a name that fits up to your blog and which defines your blog. A domain name should be easy to remember and easy to type.

Bonus tip: Avoid using a domain name which has symbols in it. It’s really a headache to type such domain.

You can get your first domain on GoDaddy.com for a very low rate. I too have purchased my domain name from them and didn’t have face any problem as far.

#3 Step: Buy a good web-hosting.

After purchasing a good and simple domain name for your blog, the next step is to purchase a good web-hosting. Well, let me guess again. You didn’t know what is web-hosting, right?

Well, don’t worry. I will make it clear to you. Web-hosting is the server on which your site/blog will run. Understand it in a way that, a domain name is the name of your brand and web-hosting is the building in which you will operate your business.

You need both in order to run a successful business, right!

Before purchasing any web-hosting, you should have to keep it in mind that how much traffic that hosting can handle. Well, in starting your blog will not get that much traffic, but after some couple of months, you’ll going to get a handsome amount of traffic. So, if you buy a poor and low-quality web hosting your site will keep crashing and you’ll lose traffic as well as readers too.

Well, there are tons of hosting companies available in the market. So, which one should you choose?

I highly recommend you to go for Bluehost web-hosting, it’s the most trusted and widely used hosting across the world. Bloggers like Neil Patel, Brian Dean, Harsh Agarwal too use it.

So, you can simply say that it’s the most trusted and high-quality web-hosting available in the market.

Bonus tip: You can purchase Bluehost web-hosting on a special discount from here: Special Discount on Bluehost Web-Hosting

#4 Step: Link the domain and install WordPress on your hosting server.

Now the things get little tricky here. But don’t get frustrated, after all, I am here to help you.

To link the Domain to your hosting server you need to change the DNS and Nameservers of the domain. You can do that in the management domain section.

If you have purchased your domain from GoDaddy, you can go to your account and then head over to my domain section. And then choose that domain which you want to connect. After that, look up for manage domain option and there you’ll see the option of Nameservers and DNS. You have to change them according to your hosting server DNS.

And after linking the domain to your hosting the next step is to install WordPress on your hosting server.

Well, if you have purchased hosting from Bluehost then it is just a one-click process. Bluehost gives you the option of installing WordPress on just one single click. (That’s another reason why I recommend you buy Bluehost hosting.)

Whether if you have purchased hosting from other sites, you have to go to your cPanel and from there you can install WordPress.

Well, if you still didn’t get these instructions, here is a video tutorial that will help you to do so.



#5 Step: Choose a simple and good-looking theme/template for your blog.

Well, there are tons of free templates available in the market for WordPress sites. You can pick one which meets your requirements. However, if you are confused with what theme you should choose or what design you should go for, then I recommend you take a look at these blogs: positivity blog, the minimalists, jamesclear, Mark Manson.

These are all very successful blogs in personal development niche. You can take inspiration from these blogs and can set up your blog too.

Pro Tip: Do choose a theme which is clean and user-friendly.

After choosing the perfect theme, you need to customize it and make some major changes. Well, don’t get panic. In WordPress, it doesn’t require any coding knowledge, it can be done by just simply drag and drop.

You’ll find it easy too when you do it yourself.

#6 Step: Write informative and useful articles.

Well, it doesn’t matter how good your site looks. If you have shitty content in it then nobody gonna come to your blog.

So, if you want to attract readers to your blog then, the next step is to write rich quality and informative posts which helps the readers in some way. In personal development niche, almost every newbie writes articles about some kinda inspirational stuff and all. But the thing is it won’t work.

Yeah, it will give your audience a little motivation, but if you want to become an authority in your niche and want those visitors to become your regular reader, you need to answer their major life problems. Write content mainly about improving their skills or solving their problems in some kinda way. This will work like a charm, believe me.

Yeah, you can write those inspirational kinda articles, but people won’t gonna look up on google for them. They look up for google to get a solution for their problems. Think in this way, and write articles around those problems, so that people will find you through google too.

These types of articles will also gonna help you for the long run and especially if you want to make some money from your blog. You can make your own products or can recommend other’s products to your reader which will solve some of their problems.

#Final Step: Spread out the word.

Well, first of all, congratulations! You’ve successfully created your own blog and have written some valuable content.

Now, here comes the final step and you can say a never-ending step.
You’ve to spread out the word.

Well, if you have thought that people will gonna come and see your blog just because you’ve great content on your blog, then you’re totally wrong. This will not work in this way. Especially, this blogging thing. You have to spread out the word on yourself.

Share your blog with your family, friends and tell them to share it with their friends and so on.

You should have to create a social media presence and have to build your brand on social media too. SEO will take a lot of time to get decent traffic and to rank posts. So, till then, you should rely on social media and get the most of it.

I can speak about it all day, but this would go off topic. So, you should read this article: Social Media Branding: Tips to Grow Your Brand on Social Media

And if you want to get most of your social media accounts then you can buy this online course from Udemy: The Complete Digital Marketing Course - 12 Courses in 1 It will help you to master the social media.

Still, if you want me to make a sperate post on how to get traffic to your blog, let me know in the comment section below, I will definitely make one.

So, this is it. Hope it helps you. If you still have any queries or problems, you can ask me at Instagram at @notmanishkumar or you can just simply write down a comment below.

Happy Blogging.

See you soon.

Manish Kumar.


Top 10 Most Inspiring Gary Vaynerchuk Quotes

Gary Vaynerchuk is one of those successful entrepreneurs who has proved it that age is just a number. He is now 42 years old and still scaling up his business and growing on social media.

He has over 3 million followers on Instagram only. That is a huge number right!

Apart from these achievements he has been featured in many leading magazines and websites like Forbes, Entrepreneur, Inc, Foundr and so on.

He too has a YouTube channel where he has over 1 million subscribers.

The main thing I love about him is his words and his way of talking. He doesn’t give a shit about anyone and just gives out a pure knowledge.

Well, if you take a look at his Instagram profile he is mainly known for posting cool and inspiring quotes. So, today in this post, I will talk about his 10 most inspiring quotes.

Top 10 Most Inspiring Quotes of Gary Vaynerchuk:


1. “When you know exactly who you are, you put zero weight into anyone’s opinions.”



2. “Forget yesterday. Last week, last month, that girl, that boy, that boss, that time... Let’s fucking go.”

3. “Learn to love rejection and you will find the unlock to winning.”

4. “Always pay attention to the person that is giving the advice, not the advice.”

5. “I choose optimism because if I choose to be pessimistic, it’s over before it starts.”

6. “It’s simple, be a good person and good things happen.”

7. “I think people struggle with being very real with themselves.”

8. “Fuck yesterday. Don’t dwell on it… understand it, learn from it but don’t over-respect it and allow it to affect tomorrow negatively.”

9. “It’s more important to learn and fail than it is to always be right.”

10. “There’s only one story, yours.”


Let me know which one of these do you like the most in the comment section below.


How to Block Someone from Your Mind
Have you loved someone so much and they left you for a shitty reason? Do you still feel the same about them as you were used to feel? 

Well, let me assume your situation. You have tried your best but unable to get rid of their memories! You have done almost every single thing that you can even think of to get rid of their thoughts but they are still in your head?

You just want to get your ex, your loved one out from your head but don’t know how you can do it!

You only want to live a happy life, but their picture comes up every time in your mind? You want to get rid of your ex-memories but didn’t figure out how you can do it?

If so, then this post is going to be very helpful for you. In this post, I will give you some tips which will help you to get rid of those painful memories and to forget your ex, your loved ones.

5 Most Effective Tips to Forget Someone Easily:


1. Do not try to solve things.

You can't just forget them, or get them out from your head if you keep looking up for some ways to solve things out. Believe me or not, but solving things isn't an option.

If they've hurt you once and didn't even apologize for it, chances are they gonna do the same again.

So, why should give them a second chance?

Don't you think it's going to be a big mistake?

So, the first thing you should have to do to get them out of your head is, do not try to solve things.

Instead of running behind them, let them go. Remember, if someone loves you he/she will come back to you. No matter what the situation is. If they didn’t come back then understand it that maybe they were not made for you.

"Don't be confused to love them who didn't appericiate your efforts." -Manish Kumar

2. Understand that your self-respect is more important.

I have just one simple question for you, do you really think that they are simply above and more important from your self-respect?

Don't be silly. They're not. And if you think it that they then believe me you're a fool. Sorry to say, but you're.

Don't get confused with self-respect and ego. These two are totally different terms.

When you care yourself, think about your own self first, its called self-respect. But ego is your own opinion about yourself. Ego is when you consider yourself above from everyone else.

I have seen it many times that people get confused with self-respect and ego and think that caring about their own selves is ego or selfishness.

You should never let someone be so comfortable to disrespect you.

Raise your standards, respect yourself first. Never do something for someone by which you may lose your self-respect. Understand the fact that if someone loves you and wants to be with you, then they make efforts, not excuses. They will protect you, instead of disrespecting you.

“Who cannot respect yourself, how he/she can love you?”

3. Keep yourself busy in other activities

Do not spend all your time in your ex-memories. Don’t be sad all the time. I know in beginning it's hard to forget someone whom you used to love. But hey, do you want to live in that pain for forever?

No right!

So, you should have to take this step. It's hard in begining, but not impossible. You'll be happy. Happy as you never been before. You just have to keep going.

Keep yourself busy in doing those works which you love. It can be your hobby, it can be your favorite sport, or something else. Note down all those things which you love to do and do them. This will help you to stay relaxed and feel happy.

4. Cut Off Communication


If you're relationship once broked up, then there it makes no sense to still communicate with them. If you still want to communicate, then you will never be able to get rid of those love feelings. You must have to cut off the communication first.

Again just think it in this way that if they didn't care about you, they didn't want to talk with you, then why the hell are you going behind them? 

If you think about it, it seriously makes no sense.

Ignore them and cut off the communication. Try to communicate with your other friends, your family members instead of talking to them. And you'll forget them in couple of days or weeks.

5. Work for your goals.

If you think that when you got broked up with your loved once, then your life is over, then believe me you're so fuckin wrong. 

When I have my breakup then instead of running behind her, crying behind this, I utilize the time to set up life goals and work towards them

And this is what I want you to do.

Instead of running behind them, instead of wasting time rememberin them, decide or set up your life goals and work towards them.

If you like this article, then do share it with your friends, family who needs it.
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“Every thought is a battle, every breath is a war, and I don’t think I am winning.”

Thoughts like these were in my head a while ago. When I was facing the hardest and darkest time of my life I have lost everything that I love and nobody was with me.

That’s the time when I really get to know what the heck is depression is.

Depression isn’t just thinking and worrying about a thing continuously. Believe me, it’s more than it.

Depression kills us from inside and there is a little hope left to still continue in life. The mind stops working and we just can’t figure out what should we do.

And believe me, if you didn’t have anyone with you to support you, to lift you up. Then, this could be the worse moment of your life. And you’ll feel it difficult to get the hell out of this situation.

Well, don’t just get panic about it.

I could give you some tips which can help you a little to motivate yourself and lift yourself up. But the problem is in this situation our mind didn’t operate well and that’s why you’ll not going t understand anything from my blog post.

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Give this a shot and let me know in the comment section below how it helps you.