Should-you-care-about-others-opinion

One question that keeps hitting my mind is, should I care about what others are saying about me or my work? I mean should I care about their opinions?

Well, didn’t know about you, but I personally didn’t really care about others opinions. I mean unless they are going to benefit me.

If they say me you should stop this blogging thing and should focus on your studies and try to get a job, I just completely ignore them. They really didn’t have any idea about what I am doing and how’s it going to help me in the future. I have a dream, which no one believes and see, but only me.

If you’re too like me and have a dream which you want to achieve but your surroundings keep saying that you should stop it and focus on something else, then this post is for you. You’ll be going to get an idea about what you should do in this situation and what is going to be best for you.

So, let’s talk about the first thing first,

Should you listen to their opinions?


Well, it depends. I mean if they’re saying something that’ll be going to benefit you, then keep it in mind. There’s nothing wrong in listening to someone else opinion. You should keep your ego by side and should listen to them.

But if they’re saying something bullshit like stop this work and focus on your studies or something else, then here’s a thing, ‘just completely ignore them.’

If you have got a dream, and you think it has a great future, then don’t listen to anyone in this world. Just focus on your dreams and keep working consistently. There should be only one voice, that is yours.

It doesn’t matter how big your dream is. You have got the power to achieve that dream, and you have to believe it. There’s nothing impossible in this world if you wanna achieve your dream, then go for it. Don’t listen to anybody who is telling you to stop.

Misconception about success.


There’s always been a misconception in our surroundings that we only get succeed by studying in college or universities. From the very beginning, they teach us that if we want to succeed in life, then we have to study and have to get good grades.

Well, I didn’t say that studying is a bad thing, in fact, I love studying. But the thing is those school grades won’t make us successful, but our abilities and our skills make us successful.

This word ‘success’ means different to every other individual. For you, it may be to get a good stable job, for your brother it may be to be a great singer, and for me, it is to be a great entrepreneur and leave a legacy behind.

So, if you just want a good job, then studying should be your priority, but if you’re like me, then you’ll know that there’s so much knowledge outside from those school books and we have to explore that.

I just want to break this misconception that success only can get from good grades.

Steve Jobs, Bill Gates, Mark Zuckerberg, and so on. Do you know all these millionaires are college dropouts and haven’t graduated from the college!

So, there’s no point telling others that success can only be achieved by good grades.

Is your dream worth it?


There’s no point in ignoring the whole world if your dream is not worth it. I mean if your dream won’t going to make a living for you, then what’s the point of ignoring others?

I mean just be practical here. You have to make money if you want to live. So, if your dream is not going to make a living out for you, then you should listen to what others are saying.

Now don’t get me wrong, but I am just being real with you. I don’t want you to starve. So, it’s better you should listen to what others are saying and do something which will be going to benefit you financially.

You can always achieve your dream, but keep it in mind, that dream should be worth your hard work and ignorance.

“Dreams are not achieved by hard work only. But it takes consistency, ignorance, and failures too.” -Manish Kumar

Keep your ego on a side.

I saw many people who just don’t listen to what others are saying just because of their ego. Just because they don’t want someone to guide them. I mean what’s the point of it? What are you trying to show to the world?

Ego, attitude all these things won’t give you anything, except people’s hate. Self-respect is must, but ego is another thing. You should know the difference between these two.

There’s nothing wrong or to be ashamed if someone teaches you something. It doesn’t matter if they’re elder from you or are younger from you. We just can’t know all the things and there’s nothing wrong in being taught by a younger person.

So, if you’re one of them who ignore others opinion just because they’re younger or you just have some ego issues, then sorry to say my friend, but you’ll never going to grow. We grow by making mistakes and learning from them. But if you’re one of them who don’t want to be seen as a failure then you’ll never be going to grow.

“Winner and losers both fail. It’s just winners who learn from his mistakes and try again.”

Conclusion:

So, in short, you should listen to others if they’re right. And now don’t say that how can I find out that how will I know that if they are right or wrong!

If you think your dreams are worth ignorance, then go for it. But if your dreams are not worth it, then its time to put a full stop and you should listen to what are sayings.

And you should never ignore others just because you have some ego issues. Be a kind person, and if you’re wrong then admit it and listen to what are sayings.


Hope you like it. Please do share it with someone who needs to read this. And let me know in the comment section below do you listen to other’s opinions?


One-Life-No-Regrets

Didn’t know about you, but I can’t just live in regrets. I mean there is just only one life and tell me one thing, do you want to live your whole life in some regrets?

For me, it’s a big fuckin NO.

I think that’s one of a reason why I keep hustling all the time because in my late 30’s or 40’s I don’t wanna live in regrets. I want to achieve something big and for it, I will do whatever it takes.

So, in today’s post, I will talk about this topic and will be going to share my opinions.

Live in reality.


Just tell me one thing, do you believe that you’ll get another life? Do you think that you’ll get another chance?

Hell no!

There’s just only one life and you have to realize it. I mean if you wanna be a singer, go for it. If you wanna be a painter, go for it. But don’t just let your dreams for next day. The irony of life is that death is unpredictable. It may seem a little bit rude or harsh to you, but this is true. I mean no one can predict their death or future.

Talking about myself, I wanna be a blogger and an entrepreneur, so I am working for it now. I can’t just let this work for tomorrow or on some other day because I know or you can say realize that I can be dead at any moment.

Well, it’s the harsh truth of life and you’ve to realize it. If you wanna do something, do it now. There’s nothing like tomorrow or the next day. There’s just only today.

Living in Regrets.


I would rather want to live in the failure, instead of living in the regrets of not even trying. I mean if I want to do something, if I want to achieve something, I will work or it. It may seem impossible to you, but for me, it’s my dream and I will do whatever it takes to achieve it.

If you say that hey Manish! Just forget about it, you can’t achieve it. Well, fuck you. I didn’t ask for your opinion. I have belief in myself, and that's what you needed too.

Well, just think about it. You sitting on a chair in your late 30’s or 40’s, thinking about all those opportunities you missed when you were young. Do you really wanna spend the rest of your life in that fuckin regret?

If not, then do something about it.

Get out from your comfort zone and work hard. I know a comfort zone is a beautiful place and you want to play safe, but listen! Nothing ever grows in the comfort zone and if you want to achieve something big, then you have to get out from your safe zone. You have to take the risk.

“Take the risk, that’s where legends are made.”

Keep it in mind, “in the end we only regret the chances we didn’t take.”


There’s only one fuckin life. Do something about it, my friend.
top-7-anime-quotes

Didn’t know about you, but I am personally a big fan of anime. To those who didn’t know what the hell is anime, “it is a style of Japanese film and television animation.”

My personal favorite anime shows are Naruto, Dragon Ball Z, Pokémon and so on. (Btw what’s your favorite anime show, let me know in the comment section below.)

So, today in this post, I will write top 7 anime quotes which I personally loved most.

So, let’s get started:

(Note: I do not own any of these images. All the credits are given to their respective owner.)

1. Hard work is worthless.

Naruto-Uzumaki-Quote

“Hard work is worthless for those that don’t believe in themselves.” -Naruto

2. When they lose faith.

Itachi-Uchiha-Quote

“People’s lives don’t end when they die. It ends when they lose faith.” -Itachi Uchiha

3. Achieve revenge.

Sakura-Naruto-Quote

“Even if you achieve your revenge, nothing will change.” -Sakura

4. Brainless monkey.

Goku-Quote

“I would rather be a brainless monkey than a heartless monster.” -Goku

5. The true power of us.

Saitama-One-Punch-Man-Quote

“True power of us human beings is that we can change ourselves on our own.” -Saitama (One-Punch Man)

6. Change your destiny.

Naruto-Uzumaki-Quote

“If you don’t like your destiny, don’t accept it. Instead, have the courage to change it the way you want it to be.” -Naruto Uzumaki

7. I’m a failure.

Izuku-Midoriya-Quote

“Sometimes I do feel like I’m a failure. Like there’s no hope for me. But even so, I’m not gonna give up. Ever!” -Izuku Midoriya




So, what’s your favorite anime quote? Comment down below.
Short-Inspirational-Quotes-Sayings

Well, if you have followed me on Instagram (that you should do) I am a huge fan of inspirational quotes and sayings. In fact, in my Instagram account, I post them too.
(Follow me on Instagram at @notmanishkumar)

So, I thought why shouldn’t I make a sperate post on my blog writing all my personal favourite quotes and sayings.

By the way, if you don’t wanna read them here, I have made a YouTube video too. You can check it out from here:

So, here are my 15 personal favourite short quotes and sayings:

1. You Won’t Give Up

“It doesn't matter how hard it gets. Promise me, you won't give up.”

2. Never Trust Your Fears

“Never trust your fears, they don't know your struggle.”

3. Do It with Passion

“Do it with passion, or not at all.”

4. Believe in Yourself

“Believe in yourself, even when no one else does.”

5. Change You

“If it doesn't challenge you, it doesn't change you.”

6. Best Days of Your Life

“You have to fight through some bad days to earn the best days of your life.”

7. Clear Vision of Goal

“When you have a clear vision of your goal, it's easier to take the first step toward it.”

8. Push Yourself

“You will never know your limits unless you push yourself to them.”

9. Change Your Life

“Every day is a chance to change your life.”

10. Be Unstoppable

“Believe in yourself and you will be unstoppable.”

11. You May Wish

“A year from now you may wish you had started today.”

12. Ordinary and Extraordinary

“The difference between ordinary and extraordinary is that little extra.”

13. Be Somebody

“Be somebody nobody thought you could be.”

14. Slow Process

“It's a slow process, but quitting won't speed it up.”

15. Remember that Guy

“Remember that guy who gave up? Neither does anybody else.”



So, which quote do you like most from these? Let me know in the comment section below. And if you like it, then do share it with your friends and family. 😊
How-to-deal-with-anger

“Speak when you are angry – and you’ll make the best speech you’ll ever regret.” -Laurence J. Peter

We live in an era where we are surrounded by people whose only motive is to say bad about us or to bring us down. So, in this era, it’s really easy to get angry and lost our peace of mind.

But it doesn’t mean that you should forget about the peace of mind and just get angry at a thing which has nothing to do with your life and with your goals.

Well, I personally believe that if it doesn’t help me to achieve my goals, then it’s none of my business. And I suggest you too to think in this way.

I mean you should only care about those things which are going to benefit you in some way. Whether it’s for achieving your goals or for self-improvement.

So, in this post, I will talk about how you can deal with anger in just 5 minutes.

So, let’s get started:

1. Take deep and long breaths.


Scientists have proved it that in the moment of anger if a person takes deep, long breaths, he will more likely to lose his anger/temper in a very short period of time.

Now, it’s time for you to make this your habit. Whenever you feel anger, instead of just spitting out everything that you have to regret later, take deep breaths and try to calm down.

“Believe me, anger only going to give you scars that you have to regret later.”

So, be wise and instead of getting angry, seek the peace of mind and try to calm down in every situation of life.

2. Distract yourself.


This is the one thing that I do most of the times. Whenever I get angry or feel tensed. I simply distract myself in some other kinda work or things. Like, I go on YouTube and start watching videos.

In this way, I calm down myself and keep myself away from all the anger and negativity and maintain my peace of mind.

You should try this thing out. Whenever you feel anger, try to distract yourself. There are tons of ways in which you can distract yourself away from the anger. Like, you can listen to your favorite songs, you can read your favorite book, you can watch your favorite TV show or just like me you can watch videos on YouTube.

It all depends upon you, how you distract yourself.

3.  Get out and go for a walk.


In the moment of anger, you can also try this out. Get out of that environment and go for a walk outside. It will surely help you to understand your anger and will also help you to overcome or you can say deal with it.

In this walk, think about all those things which have made you angry and think are those things really matter to you?

I believe it will surely help you to release your anger and to maintain your peace of mind.
Now, it depends upon you, what you choose. Whether you want to live an anger-free life, or just a life full of anger. Whether you want to maintain your peace of mind or just want to be angry and depressed. Whether you want to keep the things running or want to regret them later.

It all depends upon you, what you choose.


So, this is it. Let me know in the comment section below how these tips work for you.  And do share it if you like it.😊


Fake it till you make it

Well, you may have heard this quote a lot that fake it till you make it. But my question is, is this really what you need to become successful?

I mean you’re faking your journey, not just your journey but your whole image in front of your audience. And do you think that faking it and telling everyone lie is going to make you a trustworthy authority in your niche?

I don’t think so.

I personally believe that if you really want to succeed and want to become a trustworthy authority, you should spit out the truth. None of the bullshit or fancy lifestyle. Just show your audience what you really are and believe me you’ll gain their trust and faith quickly and for a longer time.

Now, let me ask you again this question, do you still think that fake it till you make it is a good approach?

Well, so now question arise that if this approach isn’t good enough, then what should one do who don’t have achieved anything big yet?

Document it instead of faking it.


Instead of faking it, try a different approach and document your journey. Instead of faking your lifestyle, faking your achievements, and so on, keep it simple and document your journey.

Just spit out the truth and let others know what you really are and see how this simple thing can become a life changer in your life.

People love to watch and listen to those who say the truth, instead of faking it.

Instead of showing them results, document your journey and let them know how you are doing it. It’s just our human nature that we love those who says the truth instead of just fancy bullshit.

Instead of showing them results, take them with you.


Well, if you think you’re going to fake it till you make it and then you’ll show them what you really are, then I don’t think you’ll gain that truth in your audience. Yes, many people have done it, but it doesn’t matter that you should do it too.

I suggest you take your audience with you on your journey, instead of just showing them the results you get. People will more likely to become a part of your audience if you show them how you are doing it and if you show them what you really are.

I mean instead of just making them your listener, make your audience a part of the journey and see how it can change your journey completely.

Well, think about it or not, but you have to care about your audience. You just can’t make them just your listener or watcher. Make them a part of your journey and in this way, they’ll more likely to want to be with you.

Make them feel special and see how it can become a turning point in your life.


So, now try a different approach and “Document it, till you make it.”